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Police to engage with the community about New Milton SNT relocation

Published: Monday, April 22, 2013
A community engagement meeting is being held to engage with the public about a proposal for New Milton Safer Neighbourhoods Team (SNT) to move to the Town Hall, in Ashley Road, in the next few months.
The meeting is being held to make the public aware of what is happening and why, and to provide reassurance that police will remain visible in the heart of the community.
The relocation is part of Hampshire Constabulary's Estate Development Programme, which aims to provide appropriate facilities to fit the current and future policing needs and provide the best possible service to the public, while achieving value for money.
Acting Director of Hampshire Constabulary's Estate Development Programme, Chief Inspector Rob Heath, said: "We are policing in a time in which mobile technology allows officers and staff to work out of various locations, alongside our partners. We already have a number of officers in the force successfully working from alternative locations, such as at schools, supermarkets and fire stations".
The public meeting will take place on:
Wednesday, May 1, between 6.30-7.30pm
Town Hall
2 Ashley Road
New Milton
BH25 6BZ
Information taken from http://www.hampshire.police.uk/internet/news-and-appeals/2013/april/220413
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Former Leeds football player comes out as gay

Robbie Rogers
Former Leeds football player comes out as gay
Former Leeds United winger Robbie Rogers has written a blog in which he comes out as openly gay and retires from the game.
The 25-year-old, who was released by Leeds in the summer and joined Stevenage on loan, becomes the first professional footballer in Britain to come out since Justin Fashanu in 1990.
He also played for America 18 times, including all three of their games at the Beijing Olympics in 2008.
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Marriage Equality Bill due soon
BIG NEWS: The marriage equality bill is due to be introduced to Parliament today, published tomorrow and will hopefully go to second reading on February 5th!
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HOMOPHOBIA IN SCHOOL CAN PUT LGBT STUDENTS OFF SPORT FOR LIFE, Says NUS
NUS ‘OUT IN SPORT’ REPORT SUPPORTED BY NATIONAL SPORTS STARS GARETH THOMAS AND STEVEN DAVIES
WEDNESDAY 31 OCTOBER 2012
A report published today (Wednesday) by the National Union of Students (NUS) found that almost half of those in college and university who do not participate in any sport at college or university (46.8%) find the culture of sport to be alienating and 41.9% said they had a negative experience at school which has meant that they don’t want to get involved.
Only a third (34.6%) of lesbian, gay, bisexual and trans (LGBT) students at college or university participate in organised team sport and one in seven (14.3%) said that homophobia, biphobia, or transphobia had put them off participating in sport, while many LGBT students (37.8%) who do take part in sport are not open about their sexuality with teammates or coaches. The most popular suggestion for improving inclusion of LGBT students in sport among those surveyed was to tackle the wider issue of homophobia/biphobia/transphobia in schools (48.3%).
NUS’ Out in Sport report also recommends that sports teams publicly demonstrate their inclusiveness, and make clear they will not tolerate abuse.
The report calls on students’ unions to take a lead in ensuring that sports facilities, teams and staff are LGBT-friendly and that schools teach LGBT inclusiveness in sports. Finn McGoldrick, NUS LGBT Officer (Women’s Place), said: “No student should feel excluded from participating in any activity open to their peers – particularly not something as integral to university and college life as sport.”
“Drawing on the research, this report makes ten practical recommendations for actions that colleges and universities, sports teams and students’ unions can take to begin to remove the barriers to LGBT students’ participation in sport.”
“We look forward to working with all those involved with Out in Sport in order to make college and university sport more welcoming for LGBT students, and indeed, for everyone.”
Adding his support, Gareth Thomas, former Wales rugby union captain, said: “NUS’ Out in Sport project is truly ground breaking and I am delighted to support it. Attitudes have changed and the time is right for sport to start accepting openly gay people in the same way other areas of society have in recent years.”
Steven Davies, Surrey and England cricketer said: “Out in Sport sends a positive message to other LGBT people - that they can do it too. The report also identifies room for improvement and positive practices that can make a very real difference to participation.”
“Most LGBT students participate in individual sport or fitness activity through their students’ union or university, and as the report shows, most have a positive experience.”
“But too many who don’t participate in sport find the culture around sport alienating or unwelcoming, and many had negative experiences at school or experienced discrimination which put them off participating.”
Read the full report here
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Do Gay Couples have Happier Kids?

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Gay couples have happier kids
Studies show that the traditional nuclear family is not better. It's a dying model -- and that's a good thing
BY JESSICA VALENTI @ Salon Online
TUESDAY, SEP 4, 2012 02:00 AM BST
Excerpted from "Why Have Kids: A New Mom Explores The Truth About Parenting and Happiness"
When Rebekah Spiculgia got pregnant at seventeen, she says abortion wasn’t an option. “I was raised by a fanatically religious family. I probably considered adoption briefly.” Her boyfriend was a new one, and it was the first sexual relationship she had been involved in. So Spicuglia moved in with her boyfriend, and ten days after giving birth to her son, Oscar, they got married.
Spicuglia’s marriage didn’t last long; she says they were very different people. After he came back from a trip to Mexico, she says, there was a rift between them. So she moved from their home in Santa Maria, California, to go to college at the University of California at Berkeley. Up until then, their parenting responsibilities had been quite equal, she says. Oscar lived with her, but her ex was always involved and had even traveled for several months in Mexico with Oscar. So when she moved to Berkeley, it didn’t faze her to make a verbal agreement that Oscar would stay in Santa Maria with his father and his father’s family until Spicuglia secured family housing.
But it took a long time for her name to come up in the family-housing lottery. “I was in school full time, working thirty hours a week, and was four hours away from home,” Spicuglia told me. Because she had to work on the weekends at a restaurant, she was able to see Oscar only about once a month. She says it was odd: “I felt like a parent, but I didn’t look like a parent to anyone around me.” By the time Spicuglia finally got family housing, it was over a year later.
When she told her ex that she was ready for Oscar to come live with her, he said no. “He told me that he loved him and felt he could take better care of him since I would be in school and he had extended family there.” He also told Spicuglia that he wouldn’t let her see Oscar until she agreed to this custody arrangement. “I realized that I had no power in this situation—our agreement was verbal and he had been living with his dad for a year,” she says. “I had no family or financial support, legal resources—I didn’t know where to begin.” Spicuglia realized that if she wanted to fight for Oscar, she would have to drop out of school. She also had no money for a lawyer. She was devastated.
“But the logical part of me was wondering, Is his dad right?” With his father, Oscar had a big family in town and he was happy and stable. Spicuglia says she felt conflicted about uprooting him. “I wasn’t going to put his dad through family court and spend thousands of dollars—and put Oscar through that—just because I want my son,” she says. “It felt really selfish.”
Vew the full article here
Excerpted from “Why Have Kids: A New Mom Explores The Truth About Parenting and Happiness” by Jessica Valenti. ©2012 by Jessica Valenti. To be published by Amazon Publishing/New Harvest September 2012. All Rights Reserved.
Posted: September 5, 2012 by Pete (updated September 5, 2012)

National STIQ Day is held every January 14th - two weeks after New Year
The awareness day was launched in 2010 to encourage people to think about their sexual health - it's a day to ask questions about sexual health, and maybe to question your own sexual health.
Two weeks is the time after which common STIs such as Chlamydia can be detected with a simple STI test kit.
Nobody likes to think that they could have a sexually transmitted infection, yet anyone who has ever had unprotected sexual contact (including, for example, oral sex) could be at risk.
Although many people don't think they've got an STI, around 1-in-12 of those who get tested find that they are infected with an STI! This may sound surprising, but as some of the most common STIs (such as Chlamydia) often don't show any signs, most people who have the infection wouldn't even know.
- Have you ever had unprotected sexual contact?
- Do you think you may have be at risk from an STI?
- Would you like to get tested for Chlamydia or other STIs?
Even if you only answered 'yes' to the first question, you may have put yourself at risk - there's only one way to be sure if you've become infected - get an STI test!
About STIQ Day - January 14th 2013
National STIQ Day is held two weeks after New Year to encourage people to question their sexual health. Two weeks is the time after which common STIs such as Chlamydia can be tested for. Around 1-in-12 test positive.
NHS Choices has information on sexual health here.
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Sussex Police Appeal for Information
Murder Investigation
Do you know this man?
Detectives are appealing for help in tracing this man who is wanted in connection with a murder of 62-year-old Michael Polding in Kemptown, Brighton.
Ricardo Pisano is approximately 5'6'' tall and of slim build. He may have grown a beard or may be disguising himself in other ways. He speaks with a South African accent, although he may change his accent.
He could be introducing himself under a number of different names such as 'Brandon Victor Pillay', 'Ree' or 'Ricky'.
If you have any information please call 101 and follow instructions to be connected to Sussex Police, or call Crimestoppers anonymously on 0800 555 111.
If you have information and would prefer not to talk to the police, please call our offices and speak to a member of staff who can report it anonymously on your behalf.
Prime Minister's speech at Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgender Reception

Prime Minister affirms commitment to same sex marriage civil marriage this parliament
Wednesday 25 July 2012
The Prime Minister David Cameron has affirmed his commitment to same sex civil marriage while addressing a Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgender (LGBT) reception at Downing Street.
Read the Prime Minister’s remarks:
“I just wanted to say three things to you tonight. First of all, this party is really a celebration of the immense contribution that lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender people make in every part of our country, in the arts, in media, in sport, in business, in finance – that’s what tonight is about and I want to thank you for the immense contribution that you make to our country.
The second thing I wanted to say – there are a number of anniversaries – it’s the 40th anniversary of the first Pride march in London, the 40th anniversary of the foundation of the Jewish Gay Equality Group and I think it’s worth remembering the journey that politics has been on in terms of gay equality over the last forty years – the decriminalisation of homosexuality, the lowering of the age of consent to 18, the equalisation of the age of consent that the Blair government achieved, the introduction of civil partnerships - backed by my party and I just want to say I am absolutely determined that this Coalition government will follow in that tradition by legislating for gay marriage in this parliament. I make that point not only as someone who believes in equality but as someone who believes passionately in marriage. I think marriage is a great institution – I think it helps people to commit, it helps people to say that they’re going to care and love for another person. It helps people to put aside their selfish interests and think of the union that they’re forming. It’s something I feel passionately about and I think if it’s good enough for straight people like me, it’s good enough for everybody and that’s why we should have gay marriage and we will legislate for it.
And I know there’s going to be some big arguments, there will be arguments obviously within political parties including my own, there will be arguments with many of the public that take a different view, although it is worth noting that opinion polls consistently show that the public support the case for equality and obviously there’ll be arguments within the Churches as well and I can say how great it is to see some Church men and women here tonight supporting this cause.
I run an institution – the Conservative Party – which for many many years got itself on the wrong side of this argument, it locked people out who were naturally Conservative from supporting it and so I think I can make that point to the Church, gently. Of course this is very, very complicated and difficult issue for all the different Churches, but I passionately believe that all institutions need to wake up to the case for equality, and the Church shouldn’t be locking out people who are gay, or are bisexual or are transgender from being full members of that Church, because many people with deeply held Christian views, are also gay. And just as the Conservative Party, as an institution, made a mistake in locking people out so I think the Churches can be in danger of doing the same thing.
The third point I wanted to make is, changing laws is important, legislating is important. But what is equally important – arguably now what is more important – is actually going to be changing culture; whether it’s on the football field, or in the rugby dressing room. Changing the culture whether it’s in the school playground, changing the culture in the workplace, changing the culture everywhere so that people can genuinely feel we live in an equal, fair and tolerant country. And changing the culture is much more difficult than changing the law, changing culture is much more subtle and difficult. But the promise I can make you is that this coalition government is committed to both changing the law and also working to help change the culture and the Conservative party absolutely backs that. This is something I personally feel very passionately about.”
CEM/CMO/2012/13 - Confirmed UK Case of Anthrax Infection in a Person Who Injects Drugs

CONFIRMED UK CASE OF ANTHRAX INFECTION IN A PERSON WHO INJECTED DRUGS
Gateway ref: 17970.
27 July 2012
It has been confirmed that a Scottish resident has contracted anthrax following injecting drug use. This case follows the recent reports of anthrax infection among people who inject drugs in mainland Europe. Since early June there has been a total of six confirmed cases in heroin users in Germany, Denmark, France and Scotland. Two of these cases have been fatal.
Investigations are continuing into the cause of these cases and into any heroin supply routes that may be affected.
You should be alert to the possibility of anthrax infection in people who inject drugs presenting with severe soft tissue infections or sepsis. For patients who have injected drugs and present at their GP or A&E with these symptoms, please contact your local microbiologist for advice on management and investigation. Other services dealing with people who use drugs should refer anyone who injects drug with the above symptoms to an A&E department or to a GP for urgent assessment and management.
As there is also a risk of inhalation anthrax developing in people who smoke or inhale anthrax-contaminated heroin, any such patients presenting with some or all of its typical features (febrile illness, sepsis and/or respiratory problems) should be dealt with in the same way. Patients may also present with signs of meningitis (particularly haemorrhagic meningitis), or of subarachnoid haemorrhage/intracranial bleed.
Person to person spread of infection is extremely rare.
Please notify any cases of severe soft tissue infection or sepsis in a patient who has injected drugs, who has died or has been sufficiently unwell to require admission to hospital, to your local Health Protection Unit. Please contact us for details (0300 123 9117)
The Health Protection Agency (HPA) has produced algorithms for the clinical evaluation and management of people who use drugs with possible anthrax infections and has provided advice for those at risk which can be found at the following weblink
Targeted information, including posters and leaflets aimed at heroin injectors, has been sent by the National Treatment Agency for Substance Misuse to local drug partnerships for distribution to all organisations in touch with people who use drugs and is available from the following weblink
For further information please contact Steve Taylor at the National Treatment Agency, 020 7972 1925
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Police are issuing an e-fit of a man wanted in connection with a robbery in Portsmouth.
The victim, a 61-year-old man, was picked up by the offender in a blue vehicle by Marine Court around 8.30pm, Sunday, May 20.
The two men then drove round various car parks in Southsea before arriving at the Ferry Road car park area next to the Hayling ferry at about 9.30pm.
The driver produced a knife and demanded that the victim empty his pockets before telling him to get out of the vehicle which then sped off.
The offender got away with a quantity of cash and a mobile phone.
He is described as:
- White man
- About 40-years-old
- Large build
- Bald/shaven head
- Fair complexion
- Wearing a plain white T-shirt and blue or black tracksuit bottoms
PC Steve Bourne said: “The victim in this case got into the vehicle believing the driver was interested in sexual activity. Thankfully, he was not injured, but he has been left very shaken by what’s happened and had a considerable amount of money stolen.
“I’m appealing for anyone who recognises the suspect either from his description or from the e-fit to come forward. It might be that he’s done this to someone else or been spotted driving around the Portsmouth area.”
Anyone with information is asked to contact PC Bourne at Fratton police station on 101 or the anonymous Crimestoppers charity on 0800 555 111.
“It’s important we know about such crimes because these sorts of offenders will often prey on vulnerable people who meet strangers for sex thinking it’s unlikely they’ll speak to the police.
“If you do meet strangers for sexual activity, think about the ways you can minimise the risks to your personal safety. For example, don’t carry large amounts of cash, avoid isolated areas and don’t get into a stranger’s car.
“Also remember that sexual activity in public is not illegal so long as other people who might be offended can’t see you and are unaware.
“You can always ask to speak to a Lesbian and Gay Liaison Officer whenever you call Hampshire Constabulary.
“To report a crime, always call 999 in an emergency or 101 if it’s less urgent. You can also call us on 101 and ask for a LAGLO if you want to talk about these issues further.”
Police target homophobic abuse in Portsmouth

Police in Portsmouth are carrying out an operation to target homophobic abuse.
It follows several reports of verbal abuse directed at people outside gay and gay-friendly venues in the city centre.
The abusive language mainly comes from passengers in vehicles driving passed the venues on Hampshire Terrace.
On Friday, April 27, two police officers were deployed in plain clothes outside the HB bar. Other uniformed officers were deployed in a vehicle nearby ready to respond.
The operation was co-ordinated with officers from the Targeted Patrol teams, Safer Neighbourhoods team and Lesbian and Gay Liaison Officers and another is planned for the future.
PC Ryan Cheyne from Southsea police station said: “We get many reports from staff and customers of the local venues of people shouting abuse from the back of a passing vehicle. I’m pleased to say that on this occasion there were no incidents of abuse. That doesn’t mean our operation was a waste of time, however, because we conduct them for a number of reasons.
“Primarily, we want to protect our communities by deterring people from committing these sorts of offences in the first place. Verbal abuse is unacceptable. It can be distressing and if we tolerate it, it sends out a message that it’s ok to treat others this way.
“Secondly, we want to reassure LGB&T communities that something can be done about it. We might not always be able to make an arrest there and then, but we can plan operations like this which address the long-term issues.
“Hopefully, people hearing about this operation will encourage them to come forward and report hate crimes and incidents.”
If you’ve been assaulted, threatened, intimidated because of sexual orientation or gender identity, call police on 101 or 999 in an emergency or if it’s just happened.
You can always ask to speak to one of the force’s Lesbian and Gay Liaison Officers (LAGLOs).
Follow them on Twitter @HantsPoliceLGBT
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What is IDAHO on 17th May?

IDAHO is the International Day Against Homophobia and Transphobia.
On 17th May many National Gay Organisations (NGO's) will be rallying, marching, holding events and displays promoting IDAHO.
Healthy Gay Hampshire are supporting colleges throughout Hampshire with IDAHO displays and events. If you are a college student, find out what is happening in your college by speaking to your Student Support centre staff.
Watch out for other events happening around Hampshire on our diary page.
Read history of IDAHO
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Police Appeal for Witness
At approximately 03.00hrs on Saturday 21st April a 22 yr old local male was assaulted in Portsmouth Road.
Following the initial assault he was dragged into woodland opposite Veal’s where he was then sexually assaulted.
You may have noticed the police cordon at this location over the weekend?
The suspect is described as follows:
- White male, 20 – 22 years with a local accent
- 5’ 8”
- Skinny build & skinny face
- Stubble on face (beard style)
- Shaped eyebrows as if plucked
- Wearing a navy or black ‘hoody’ with stripes on the sleeves.
The suspect may have been riding a BMX style pedal cycle which had slightly bigger wheels than normal and distinctive pegs protruding from the rear wheel axle.
- Can you assist?
- Were you in the vicinity at the time?
- Did you hear or see anything of the incident?
- Do you know who the suspect may be?
Please contact Western Area CID at Southampton Police Station on 023 80 533315 if you have any information that could assist.
If you wish to give information anonymously please contact Crimestoppers on 0800 555111.
: : Arthritis Awareness : :

Arthritis can affect anyone at any age. If you or someone that is close to you are suffering from arthritis - help is available...
There are around 10 million people with arthritis in the UK. That’s 10 million individuals, plus their families, each affected in a unique way.
From high quality information and support to empower you to take control of your arthritis, to campaigning for change… Arthritis Care is here for you.
Arthritis Care is an organization devoted to helping people with all forms of arthritis.
Services that Arthritis Care provide include:
- Publications - Arthritis Care provides clear and accurate information about arthritis
- Liaise - Arthritis care work closely with other arthritis organization in the UK and with health professionals
- Help line - a free confidential help line for people with arthritis
- Campaigns - to raise awareness of the needs of those with arthritis, improved services and an end to discrimination
- Self-management and personal development programs - improves confidence, skills and the quality of life for those with arthritis
Alternative information from NHS Choices can be found here.
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This information adapted from http://www.arthritiscare.org.uk/Home
Have you seen this man?
Hampshire Police are interested in hearing from anyone that may know this man.
He has been involved in two serious assaults recently. One in Basingstoke and one in the Andover area.
His brief description is: White Male, Possible Aryan (Germanic Northern European) background. He is in his 30's, 6ft 2in to 6ft 3in tall, with a fit build, fair/blonde hair neatly cut and swept back (which bounced as he ran), he has piercing staring eyes which were of a light but unknown colour, with a narrow mean looking mouth and a round face.
Anyone with information as to the name of this person or his address are asked to contact the police on 0845 045 45 45 and ask for extension 761-250, quoting Operation Jefferson. Your call will be in the strictest confidence and you do not have to give your name.
If you prefer not to speak to the police, you can call us in confidence and we can pass information on to the police on your behalf.
Our office numbers are:
- Basingstoke - 0300 123 9117 - 07880 781 192
- Andover - 0845 643 9399 - 07880 781 190
New Service, New Emails!

The HIV Prevention Service in now part of Solent NHS.
In a move to have all sexual health services provided by one organisation we have moved to Solent NHS along with the Sexual Health Clinics, Chlamydia Screening Programme and Contraceptive and Sexual Health Clinics services.
It is hoped that this will mean that we can provide better, faster and more client focused services, you may see some exiting changes in the next few months.
as part of this all our emails have changed to a name@solent.nhs.uk all of the email addresses on our sites have been change so there should not be problems. although if you have ordered condoms this may take longer than usual while we get our new system working properly.
Posted: February 13, 2012 by Andrew (updated March 16, 2012)

STIQ Day - 14 January 2012

Getting sexually assessed how to keep your health at its best!
STIQ Day
14 January 2012
STIQ Day has been founded to draw attention to the importance of our sexual health - and in encouraging people to get regular STI examinations.
Can you say with 100% positivity that you haven't contracted an STI? Sexually transmitted diseases are becoming more and more common in the UK every year.
Who is in danger of infection? An ICM poll suggested that each Briton will have around 9 bed partners in their lifetime. But whether you've had one partner or a good deal more you could be at risk. It doesn't matter if you're gay or straight - or what age you might be - if you've had one single unprotected sexual encounter you could be at risk.
You might thinking, but I'm perfectly healthy?! While this could be true, STIs often don't carry external symptoms which means the only way to know for sure would be to get an sti assessment.
For example 70% of women and 50% of men show no symptoms whatsoever after contracting Chlamydia. Chlamydia is the most common STI condition in the UK. Left untreated, the sufferer can end up infertile or with pelvic inflammatory disease.
Other conditions like hepatitis might be life-threatening in the long-term - or could be very serious and lead to a shortened life. It's not worth leaving up to chance is it?
This year's STIQ Day will be all about protecting and informing yourself about STIs as much as possible. Are you protecting yourself? This is ensured not just through wearing a condom, but also through an honest conversation with your partner about your sexual histories.
Many people get embarrasssed about the idea of getting tested. But remember, they are expertly trained and there to help you - the last thing they going to do is judge you! The good news is that most of the time if you test positive, you will be given antibiotics until the condition clears up.
To find out more about the day and testing, head to the STIQ Day website.
NHS Choices has information on sexual health here.
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Happy New Year - What are your resolutions?

What are your New Year Resolutions?
The start of a new year is traditionally a time for New Year Resolutions, where we make a list of things that we will not do, will do more of, or a list of things that we want to try in the next 12 months.
Some of us will have broken some of our resolutions already and we are only in the first week of the new year. But don't worry, we won't tell anyone and you can re-start them again now.
If you plan to Quit Smoking, give up caffeine or chocolate, or aim to get more exercise there is a wealth of support and information available for whatever you decide.
Here are some resolutions that you might like to consider
- Know your HIV status by getting tested
- Carry and Use condoms next time you have sex
- Reduce the amount of sexual partners that you have
If you have any questions or need any advice on your New Year Resolutions, please call a member of the team on the telephone numbers above
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Civil Partnership Law changed to allow religious ceremonies

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The Marriages and Civil Partnerships (Approved Premises) (Amendment) Regulations 2011 come into force 5th December, and lifted the ban on places of religious worship holding civil partnership ceremonies.
This seems to be a hot potato right now with the Secretary General of the General Synod releasing a statement, and Peter Tatchell doing the same.
The House of Lords has been urged to reject any challenge to the new law.
The UK media and press are having a field day on this subject too. The BBC has this to say on the topic, and this about the ban from the Church of England.
Pink News has this article on Peter Tatchell's story.
Keep a look out in the news, this is going to be long-haul...
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World Aids Day - 1st December

World Aids Day is observed on 1st December every year throughout the world. In every country there are people living with HIV.
HIV stands for the Human Immunodeficiency Virus. It is a virus which attacks the body's immune system — the body's defence against diseases.
HIV can be passed on through infected bodily fluids, most commonly via sex without a condom or by sharing infected needles, syringes or other injecting drug equipment.
There are now more people than ever living with HIV in the UK — more than 90,000 — with around a quarter of those unaware they have the virus.
Here are a few more facts about HIV in the UK:
- Over 90% of people with HIV were infected through sexual contact
- You can now get tested for HIV in some clinics using a saliva sample
- HIV is not passed on through spitting, biting or sharing utensils
- Only 1% of babies born to HIV positive mothers have HIV
- You can get the results of an HIV test in just 15-20 minutes in some clinics
- There is no vaccine and no cure for HIV
Have any of these facts come as a surprise? There is still loads more you can learn about HIV in the UK by visiting HIVaware — the interactive new website which provides all the information everyone should know about HIV. HIVaware gives you facts and stats on HIV, busts common myths and answers your frequently asked questions.
Take your first step to Acting Aware by visiting HIVaware today.
NHS Choices website has information about HIV here.
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Fish Pedicures HIV Risk – A Red Herring

(c) Rex Features
The Sun ran the story on the front page and a full page inside, the Daily Mail splashed it across several pages and the story was taken up with international media.
“Fish pedicures: Information for the Public” issued by the Health Protection Agency (HPA) was the source that caused the media frenzy. Along with skin conditions such as psoriasis and eczema, diabetes and legs recently waxed, HIV and hepatitis B and C, ‘may mean you should not have a fish pedicure,’ say the HPA. The information was originally meant to protect people with the above conditions from the small risk of bacterial infection.
It was however the possibility of transmission of hepatitis and HIV to other users of the foot spas, that caused the media to latch on to the story, even though the risk was quantified as ‘low but could not be excluded’ the media ran this as ‘HIV could be spread through fish pedicures’.
‘It’s rubbish’ says Deborah Jack of the National AIDS Trust. ‘There is no risk of HIV being passed on through a fish pedicure and these claims do nothing but undermine public understanding. We are really frustrated by the concern this could give people. It distracts from the real risks with HIV and feeds into the stigma of catching HIV from everyday situations.’
There has never been a recorded case of blood-borne viruses such as HIV transmitted in such a way, even in the event of a bleed into a spa and then a person with an open cut on the foot using the spa immediately afterwards. Experts say that the virus does not survive for long outside of the human body. The concentration of the virus would be highly reduced when diluted in water. Fish cannot be infected with HIV.
‘At a time when knowledge of HIV is declining, it is crucial for the public to be aware of the facts so they can protect themselves from real transmission risks – and not get preoccupied with sensationalist and inaccurate reports. We are concerned the HPA’s guidance has been misleading in terms of HIV risk and we are working with them to clarify the facts.’
NAT have launched a new resource website which provides all the information that the general public should know about HIV, particularly important it says in light of their recent Ipsos MORI research which showed a large and increasing gap in public knowledge.
Information taken from Baseline
Here's what NHS Choices has to say about Fish Pedicures
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Posted: November 24, 2011 by Pete (updated December 1, 2011)

Movember - What Mo will you grow?

uk.movember.com
During November each year, Movember is responsible for the sprouting of moustaches on thousands of men’s faces in the UK and around the world.
The aim of which is to raise vital funds and awareness for men’s health, specifically prostate cancer and other cancers that affect men.
The funds raised in the UK support the number one and two male specific cancers - prostate and testicular cancer. The funds raised are directed to programmes run directly by Movember and our men’s health partners, The Prostate Cancer Charity and the Institute of Cancer Research. These channels work together to ensure that Movember funds are supporting a broad range of innovative, world-class programmes in line with Movember strategic goals in the areas of awareness and education, survivorship and research.
Sign up, start growing one and take part.
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November - Mouth Cancer Awareness Month

Oral and pharyngeal cancer is the sixth most common cancer reported worldwide and one with high mortality ratios among all cancers.
The number of new cases in the UK is estimated at 5,790 every year and Scotland has the highest mouth cancer incidence rate of all the countries.
The latest figures show that cancer of the lip is three times more common in men than in women, and Mouth Cancer in general is twice as common in men than in women.
Smoking and alcohol are known to be the main risk factors in three out of four cases of mouth cancer.
Over two thirds of mouth cancer cases are detected at a late stage, reducing chances of survival. However, early detection transforms survival chances to more than 90%. Mouth cancer kills more people than cervical cancer and testicular cancer combined. So it is important to get things checked out if you are worried.
Make an appointment with your dentist, or your GP to talk about any irregularities or changes in your mouth.
Information provided by the Mouth Cancer Foundation and Mouth Cancer Action
NHS Choices has information on Mouth Cancer, the risks and links to local dentist and GP surgeries.
We are not responsible for content of external web sites and only offer links to other sites as an alternative source of information.
Warning over HIV home test kits

Home HIV testing kits have been illegal in the UK since 1992
Illegal home testing kits for HIV are giving people incorrect results, the Medicines and Healthcare products Regulatory Agency (MHRA) has warned.
It said there were issues with other tests for sexually transmitted diseases which were legal but might also be inaccurate.
The MHRA is investigating a UK website which is selling the tests.
The Health Protection Agency has written to some of those affected to say the tests are unreliable.
Sales records gathered during the investigation showed that about 500 tests for sexually transmitted diseases - such as HIV, chlamydia and syphilis - had been sold.
It warned that as well as home HIV tests being against the law, the other tests did not meet European regulations.
Concern
Susanne Ludgate, MHRA clinical director of devices, said: "We're concerned that there may be a number of self-test kits being sold online that may not be compliant with the relevant piece of legislation and we're urging people not to consider the internet as a method of anonymous testing.
"These kits may be unreliable and there is a significant risk they could be providing the user with a false result.
"The instructions for use might also be incorrect or confusing and not adequate for someone trying to use the kit in their home."
She said people should check for the "CE mark", which shows the tests have been approved.
The Health Protection Agency has contacted those known to have ordered the kits.
Dr Fortune Ncube, from the HPA's blood borne viruses department, said: "If anybody feels they have put themselves at risk they should contact their local GP or go to their most convenient GUM clinic, where they can receive a full screen for all STIs, including HIV.
"Rapid and confidential tests, as well as sexual health advice, are available through the NHS without charge."
This information was supplied by the BBC
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Breast Cancer Awareness Month - Men get it too..!

Breast cancer in men is rare, but there are 300 new cases in the UK every year.
Most of the information that is available for women apply just as much to men with breast cancer. The single biggest risk factor in men in age, but other factors like history of brest and other cancers, exposure to radiation, high oestrogen levels and other factors.
A diagnosis of breast cancer can be particularly difficult for men. You may feel confused and isolated. It is very common to hear about breast cancer in women but not at all common to hear about it in men. Your consultant may know other men with breast cancer that you could talk to or contact the Breast Cancer Care charity for support.
Further details can be found on the websites below, or contact us for more information or to discuss this condition.
This information was taken from Cancer Research UK
The NHS has details of Male Breast Cancer
The Breast Cancer Care website has information on female Breast Cancer and contact details for support on male Breast Cancer.
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National 'Coming Out' day - October 12th
Are you thinking of 'Coming Out'?
October 12th seems to be becoming a new phenomenon for anyone in the LGBT community that is planning on 'Coming Out'.
We would suggest that you read our Coming Out pages before you decide if this is currently the right thing for you to do at this time in your life.
People that 'Come Out' to friends and family without thinking about how it will be received could find themselves on the receiving end of additional stigma, rejection or disappointment.
However, if you are ready to 'Come Out' and have planned and thought about doing it at some length, then maybe this is the right time for you. Some people that 'Come Out' do so without any ill-effect or impact on their life.
If you have any questions about 'Coming Out' or just want to talk to someone about it, please call the office and talk to one of our experienced advisors (Pete, Andrew or Gary)
Ringwood Library Launches New LGBT Reading Group
Ringwood Library are launching a new reading group for people interested in Lesbian Gay Bi-sexual and Transgender authors or themes
The group will meet for the first time on Tuesday 1st Novemebr at 7pm in Ringwood Library.
Please contact helen.giles@hants.gov.uk for more details or call Tracey Cooper on 07554 775581
Posted: September 28, 2011 by Pete (updated October 26, 2011)

Sexual Health Week - 12th to 18th September

Sexual Health Week for 2011 is looking at The Facts Of Life. This includes talking about relationships and sex.
We are not saying that you should be talking dirty about sex all the time. You should be talking about the kinds of sex that you want with your sexual partner including negotiating safer sex and using condoms.
Relationships are not based completely on sex and should involve talking to your partner about everything that makes up a relationship.
If you want more information about sex and relationships, please call the office to talk to a member of the team. All conversations are confidential and we follow a strict confidentiality policy. You can ask about that too.
More information from the FPA website on Sexual Health Week can be found here
Details from NHS Choices about Good Sex can be found here
Posted: September 2, 2011 by Pete (updated October 26, 2011)

September - Sickle Cell Disorder Awareness month

The disorder affects the red blood cells which contain a special protein called haemoglobin (Hb for short). The function of haemoglobin is to carry oxygen from the lungs to all parts of the body.
People with Sickle Cell Anaemia have Sickle haemoglobin (HbS) which is different from the normal haemoglobin (HbA). When sickle haemoglobin gives up its oxygen to the tissues, it sticks together to form long rods inside the red blood cells making these cells rigid and sickle-shaped. Normal red blood cells can bend and flex easily.
Who Gets Sickle Cell Disorder (SCD)?
The different kinds of SCD and the different traits are found mainly in people whose families come from Africa, the Caribbean, the Eastern Mediterranean, Middle East and Asia.* In Britain SCD is most common in people of African and Caribbean descent (at least 1 in 10-40 have sickle cell trait and 1 in 60-200 have SCD). It is estimated there are over 6,000 adults and children with SCD in Britain at present. There are other inherited conditions that mainly affect other groups, e.g. Cystic Fibrosis in Europeans, and Tay-Sachs disease in Jewish people.
This information was taken from http://www.sicklecellsociety.org/
The NHS has details of Sickle Cell Disorders here
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Posted: September 2, 2011 by Pete (updated October 26, 2011)

August - Psoriasis Awareness Month
Psoriasis is a skin condition that causes red, flaky, crusty patches of skin covered with silvery scales. The condition is not infectious and most people are affected only in small patches on their body.
It affects around 2% of people in the UK. It can start at any age, but most often develops between the ages of 11 and 45.
Most cases of psoriasis go through cycles, causing problems for a few weeks or months then easing or stopping.There are several different types of psoriasis. Normally, people have only one form of psoriasis at a time, although two different types can occur together. One type may change to another type or may become more severe.
Common types of psoriasis are:
- Plaque psoriasis. This is the most common form, accounting for 80% of cases. Its symptoms are dry, red skin lesions, known as plaques, that are covered in silver scales.
- Guttate psoriasis. This normally occurs following a streptococcal throat infection and is more common among children and teenagers.
- Scalp psoriasis. This can occur on parts of your scalp or on the whole scalp. It causes red patches of skin covered in thick silvery-white scales.
- Nail psoriasis. This affects your nails, causing them to develop tiny dents or pits, become discoloured and grow abnormally.
- Inverse (flexural) psoriasis. This affects areas of the skin that are in folds or creases, such as the armpits, groin and the skin between the buttocks and under the breasts.
A dermatologist explains how this skin condition is recognised and treated and the challenging effects it can have on an individual.
More information about Psoriasis can be found here at NHS Choices web site. The infomration covers details of symptoms, causes, diagnosis, treatment and living with the condition.
We are not responsible for content of external web sites and only offer links to other sites as an alternative source of information.
Posted: August 11, 2011 by Pete (updated September 28, 2011)

New Clinic Opens at Royal South Hants (RSH) Hospital
The HIV Prevention Service are pleased to announce that staff will be available at a new clinic at the Sexual Health Services (formerly GUM) department at the Royal South Hants (RSH) Hospital in Southampton on the first and third Friday of the month from 9.30am to 1.00pm.
You will be able to make an appointment and talk about the following issues:
- HIV Issues, including why you should you test, what HIV means in todays lifestyles;
- Questions around Sexuality;
- Cultural Issues around Sexual Health;
- and other general sexual health information and advice.
If you want to talk to someone from the HIV Prevention Service while you are at the Sexual Health Services department, please ask at reception or call 0300 123 SEXY (0300 123 7399) to make an appointment, or call 0845 643 9399 for more details.
Men's Health Week Competition Winner Announced

Over the period of Men's Health Week in June (13th - 19th) the HIV Prevention Service asked men from the Hampshire area to complete a survey about men's health.
Each man that completed the survey was entered into a competition to win £40 high street vouchers as a thank you.
The HIV Prevention Service are pleased to announce that a winner has been drawn randomly from all the entries received. A man from Basingstoke was declared the winner and was contacted by one of our team about receiving his vouchers.
We would like to thank everyone that completed the survey for their time and effort.
Arlesford PSE Crime Survey

If you cruise at the A31 Arlesford Layby we are interested in your views and experiences of crime and anti social behaviour.
It would be very helpful if you could complete our crime survey which is totally confidential by clicking on the link here
For more information about crime or safety at cruising grounds please contact one of the team
Thanks
Andrew
Play your cards right!

cards
On July the 7th the HIV Prevention Service will be launching it's new HIV transmission and testing resource.
This pack of 52 playing crads will have 13 seperate facts about HIV, transmission and testing and will be free to anyone who wants a pack.
The team will be out on in the community giving away packs and dazzling you with their amazing card trick skills.
If you want a pack please contact Andrew on Andrew.Smith@Solent.nhs.uk or 0300 123 9117
USA Launches National HIV Testing Day - June 27th

The CDC (Centres for Disease Control and Prevention) in the USA is encouraging everyone from teenagers to people aged 64 to get tested for HIV. June 27th (Monday) is National HIV Testing Day
"HIV Testing is key to Prevention" and "HIV Testing saves lives" is the message that the CDC are trying to get across to everyone and that it is important to know your HIV status so you can take control of your life.
We recommend that you have a HIV test at least once a year, which is free and confidential from your local GUM clinic.
If you want to read the full article from the CDC website, please click here
If you want to find your local GUM clinic, please click here
If you want more information or if you have any questions, please call a member of the HIV Prevention team. Our contact details are on the right-hand side of the front page.
Police Warning about increase in theft from cars in New Forest

Police are warning motorists in the New Forest to lock their vehicles and remove all valuables following a rise in thefts from vehicles in the area.
Over the past few months there has been an increase in reports of thefts from vehicles where the car has been left open or items of value are left in full view of passers by.
New Forest District Chief Inspector Lucy Hutson said: “We are encouraging motorists to make a final check of their vehicle every time they leave it unattended. Have you locked it and removed all valuables from inside? If not please take a minute to do this.
“We are doing all we can to reduce vehicle crime but we need the help of residents and visitors to the New Forest too. It is impossible for us to constantly monitor all vehicles and catch thieves in action every time a crime is committed.Please do your bit by removing the temptation for thieves in the first place.”
Hampshire Constabulary offers the following crime prevention advice:
· Lock up your vehicle securely and garage the vehicle if possible
· Security mark all valuables and register at www.immobilise.com
· Don’t leave anything on display or hide it away, remove all valuables and tools from the vehicle
· Fit anti-theft number plate screws
· Use locking wheel nuts
· Consider installing an alarm
· Consider fitting a vehicle tracking system
· Display a Safer Vehicles card in your vehicle to deter thieves
For further advice, or to report suspicious activity please contact your local Safer Neighbourhoods team on 101.
The Government Equalities Office is preparing a Transgender Equality Plan

The Government Equalities Office (GEO) is preparing a Cross Government Transgender Equality Action Plan.
As a source of information to be used in shaping that Plan, the trans groups have already been preparing a Trans Community Statement of Need, in collaboration with the GEO:
The GEO is also gathering data through online surveys. Having completed its first survey, which attracted 1,275 responses, it has decided to conduct a second survey, focussed on transgender healthcare.
You will find information about the new survey in the GEO's bulletin here
(The URL of the survey itself is here)
We are seeking reassurances that the GEO is not downplaying the importance of the other areas of great concern to trans people, such as employment, education, privacy and hate crime.
Also, we are urging the GEO to publish an analysis of the data generated by its first survey, so that participants can see how their responses have been used.
The HIV Prevention Service are not responsible for content of external web sites and only offer links to other sites as an alternative source of information.
Do you need a good servicing? Your car gets an MOT once a year - so should you!
Men’s health week which runs from 13 – 19 June aims to get men take to action early to prevent health problems. While many men will take their car for a service regularly – they neglect to do the same for themselves.
Southern Health NHS Foundation Trust is reminding men that it is important to have a full sexual health screen at your local clinic at least once a year. Make sure everything is running as it should be, to be certain you do not have any sexually transmitted disease (STI), and so are not passing them on.
Top 5 tips for men’s health week
- Check under the bonnet. While your car has an MOT only once a year, you should check your own tackle more frequently! Testicular cancer affects around 2000 men in the UK every year. Men should check about once a month, feeling for any lumps or bumps that were not there before.
- Unexpected leak? Bacterial sexually transmitted diseases (STI’s) such as Chlamydia, Gonorrhoea and Syphilis are more common in men. There may be no symptoms at all, or discharge, pain when passing urine, or painful testicles. These STI’s can be treated with a simple course of antibiotics.
- Full Service History. There is not always a quick fix for STI’s. Viral STI’s such as HIV, Herpes, genital warts have no cure, although we can treat some of the symptoms which differ depending on the infection.
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Bumpy road ahead. Mental health problems affect one in four people and both men and women suffer from it equally. Depression is the most common mental health problem, and men are half as likely as women to seek help if they are suffering.
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Drive Safely. The best way to protect yourself from STI’s is to wear a condom. You can pick up free condoms at your local Contraception and Sexual Health Clinic.
Southern Health’s sexual health team is at Andover High Street Health Fair on 17 June to give advice and information. It’s cheaper than a garage bill!
If you are worried about your health, or suspect there is anything different then please see your GP as soon as possible. Further information and details about sexual health services in Hampshire can be found at: Chlamydia screening – www.haveyougotit.nhs.uk
HIV prevention – www.HIVprevention.org.uk
Contraception – www.getiton.nhs.uk
If you would like to receive a copy of our lovely leaflet about Men's Health, please call 0845 643 9399
Join the BASELINE walking weekend in Snowdonia...
BASELINE is a community based HIV/hepatitis magazine published on a quarterly basis, available at 300 sites across the UK and free on the web at www.baseline-hiv.co.uk
Three times a year they organise away weekends for thier readers to make new friends and enjoy some of the UK’s greatest beauty spots.
For £85 you’ll get two night’s accommodation, breakfast on Saturday and Sunday and a three course evening meal on the Saturday.
You don’t need any special kit, just your walking shoes. The walks are guided at a pace everyone is comfortable with.
To book your place visit www.largeoutdoors.com/baseline For more information contact Gareth on 0161 834 9855.
The next walking weekend is on July 1st 2011.
If you cannot make this date then join us on the 2nd of September as we visit the Gower Coast in South Wales.
The HIV Prevention Service are not responsible for content of external web sites and only offer links to other sites as an alternative source of information.
Coming out Video from Local Student

We stummbled across this great You Tube Vidoe while doing some work with college students at Alton College.
We would like you all to see the talent of local young LGBT people in our community and help this video rise up the YouTube Ratings.
Kathryn said about her video:
'Equality is something that should be strived for throughout the world. As a young film- maker, this is my way of promoting gay equality via the internet, so it can reach everyone all over the world. This was my first short film, and I wanted it to be special, whilst retaining the key message of gay equality. Hope you enjoy this!'
We hope you enjoy it too.
:: Arthritis Care Awareness ::

Arthritis can affect anyone at any age. If you or someone that is close to you are suffering from arthritis - help is available...
There are around 10 million people with arthritis in the UK. That’s 10 million individuals, plus their families, each affected in a unique way.
From high quality information and support to empower you to take control of your arthritis, to campaigning for change… Arthritis Care is here for you.
Arthritis Care is an organization devoted to helping people with all forms of arthritis.
Services that Arthritis Care provide include:
- Publications - Arthritis Care provides clear and accurate information about arthritis
- Liaise - Arthritis care work closely with other arthritis organization in the UK and with health professionals
- Help line - a free confidential help line for people with arthritis
- Campaigns - to raise awareness of the needs of those with arthritis, improved services and an end to discrimination
- Self-management and personal development programs - improves confidence, skills and the quality of life for those with arthritis
Alternative information from NHS Choices can be found here.
We are not responsible for content of external web sites and only offer links to other sites as an alternative source of information.
This information last updated 05 April 2011 and adapted from http://www.arthritiscare.org.uk/Home
March - Mental Health Awareness

www.mentalhealth.org.uk
It’s important to take care of yourself and get the most from life.
Mental health is about the way you think and feel and your ability to deal with ups and downs.
The Mental Health Foundation have put together 10 practical ways to look after your mental health.
Making simple changes to how you live doesn't need to cost a fortune or take up loads of time. Anyone can follow our advice.
This guide is available to download from the publications section at http://www.mentalhealth.org.uk/help-information/10-ways-to-look-after-your-mental-health/
Stress and anxiety about health concerns can make you feel down. If you have questions you can call a worker in confidence on the numbers above.
We are not responsible for content of external web sites and only offer links to other sites as an alternative source of information.
This information last updated 16 March 2011 and adapted from http://www.mentalhealth.org.uk
Your Part in History

LGBT History Month
This month is Gay History Month and we are looking for people to tell their stories.
We want people born in different decades of the 20th Century to talk about their experience of being gay through the generations. Ideally we would like people from all age groups to get involved.
Would you be happy to talk to us about your experiences with a view to it being used on the radio, TV or in a local newspaper? We would like to be able offer the media different experiences from people, about what it is like to be gay and out now, the decriminalisation of homosexuality in 1967, what happened in the 1980s when HIV/AIDS came to the public attention, what did you feel about Section 28?
If you would like to be involved then email us GMHP@Solent.nhs.ukor call Gary Jefferson on 07795 470 629
Romsey Library Celebrates LGBT History Month with LGBT Reading Group
Interested in LGBT authors or LGBT themes?
Be part of something new. Come to the first meeting of Romsey's Lesbian, Gay, Bi-Sexual & Transgender reading group on February 17th 2011 at 7.00pm in the Romsey Library.
All books will be supplied through the Library Service.
For more information phone: Jay or Marion - 01794 342 337 or email: jay@wordserf.com
Healthy Gay Hampshire support World AIDS Day 2010

Red Ribbon
Healthy Gay Hampshire are supporting the HIV Prevention Service and Education 4 Diversity in the run up to World AIDS Day 2010 (WAD).
Education 4 Diversity have launched their new web site and have released details of the WAD resources for schools and colleges across the county.
If you have any questions about World AIDS Day, or know of a school or college that would benefit from free WAD resources, please contact the Healthy Gay Hampshire offices on 0300 123 9117
Posted: November 13, 2010 by Pete (updated January 20, 2011)

October: MEN and Breast Cancer Awareness

www.breastcancercare.org.uk
Many people are unaware that men can develop breast cancer because they do not think of men as having breasts. In fact, both men and women have breast tissue. Currently there are almost 46,000 new cases of breast cancer diagnosed in the UK each year, around 300 of whom are men.
Causes
The causes of breast cancer in men are not completely known. However, there are some factors that might increase your risk:
- increasing age - men who get breast cancer are usually over 60
- exposure to radiation - previous radiotherapy treatment can slightly increase risk
- obesity - more significant in men over the age of 35
- genetic link - first degree relatives with a history of cancer at a young age
- high oestrogen levels - as a result of long term liver damage, and other conditions
- Kleinfelter's syndrome - a rare hereditary condition that can increase breast cancer risk.
Symptoms
The earlier breast cancer is treated the better, so it is important to get any symptoms checked out as soon as possible. Common symptoms include:
- lump around the nipple or any other area of the breast
- nipple discharge (may be bloodstained)
- tender or drawn in nipple
- ulceration or swelling of the breast
- swelling of the lymph nodes under the arm.
Diagnosis
Once you have seen your GP you will be referred to a hospital where you will be seen first by a doctor or specialist nurse. At the clinic you will have triple assessment. This means a breast examination, a mammogram or ultrasound scan, and a fine needle aspiration cytology (FNAC) and/or core biopsy.
Information
You may be disappointed and frustrated to find that most information available on breast cancer is specific to women. For example, much of the information talks about practical issues such as bras after surgery or the menopause after chemotherapy, which is not relevant to men.
It is important, however, that any information you receive is accurate. There is a lot of information available, especially on the Internet, but remember that while some websites are excellent sources of information, others are less reliable. And even if the information is accurate, it may not apply to you.
The people who have the most information about your cancer are those in the medical team looking after you. If you have questions, it may help to write them down and make a list, with the most important ones at the top. Ask whoever you feel most comfortable with – your specialist, your breast care nurse, or someone else in the team. If they don’t know the answer, they should be able to find it out for you.
Download a leaflet about Men and Breast Cancer
This page last updated 19 May 2010 and adapted from www.breastcancercare.org.uk
Posted: October 11, 2010 by Pete (updated November 13, 2010)

Same-Sex Hand Holding (Sshh) Saturdays

www.adayinhand.com
You don't have to fight to change the world.
If you want to live in a world where you can hold your partner's hand in the street... hold your partner's hand in the street.
Take responsibility for your visability. On the last Saturday of every month find someone of the same gender, and hold their hand in public. It may only be for one minute or for the whole day!
Holding hands with your partner, where you can, is about being true to yourself and to those you love.
This is not a protest, a rally, a Pride or a march. This is about you and the life you lead every day.
For more details please visit the A Day In Hand website, or call one of our team on 0300 123 9117 or 0845 643 9399, or see our diary pages for upcoming Sshh Saturdays
Posted: September 8, 2010 by Pete (updated October 11, 2010)

18/09/10 - 25/09/10 National Eczema awareness week -

Eczema Awareness Week
Having the right level of knowledge and information about eczema is key to treating and managing the condition.
The About Eczema pages on the links below provide you with practical information on eczema and how to treat and manage it. In addition you will find information on where to find additional sources of support for people who have to live with eczema on a day to day basis.
National Eczema Society - "Ditch the Itch" campaign for 2010
Stress and anxiety about Sexuality or health concerns can make eczema flare up. If you have questions about health or sexuality you can call a Healthy Gay Hampshire worker in confidence on 0845 643 9399 or 0300 123 9117
We are not responsible for content of external web sites and only offer links to other sites as an alternative source of information.
Posted: September 2, 2010 by Pete (updated October 11, 2010)

September - Sickle Cell awareness month
Sickle cell disorder affects around 12,500 people in England, making it the most common inherited disease in the country. It evolved thousands of years ago in areas of the world where malaria was common.
Sickle cell disorder is a group of conditions. The most serious (and common) of them is sickle cell anaemia. Most people affected by sickle cell anaemia are either of African or Caribbean origin. It can also affect people from Mediterranean, Middle Eastern or Asian origin.
Find out more information about Sickle cell disorders by following the links below.
If you have concerns or questions about your health and are from African, Caribbean, Mediterranean, Middle Eastern or Asian origin you can talk to our BME worker by calling 0800 075 1057 or visit SHEA
We are not responsible for content of external web sites and only offer links to other sites as an alternative source of information.
Posted: September 2, 2010 by Pete (updated October 11, 2010)

August is International Psoriasis awareness month
Psoriasis is a skin condition that causes red, flaky, crusty patches of skin covered with silvery scales.
The condition is not infectious and most people are affected only in small patches on their body.
It affects around 2% of people in the UK. It can start at any age, but most often develops between the ages of 11 and 45.
The severity of psoriasis varies greatly from person to person. For some people it is just a minor irritation, but for others it has a major impact on their quality of life.
For more information about Psoriasis, please visit the NHS website.
We are not responsible for content of external web sites and only offer links to other sites as an alternative source of information.
Syphilis - Outbreak

Syphilis Outbreak
It has been announced that there is a significant number of syphilis cases in residents of East Dorset and Hampshire.
GUM have indicated that most cases are in gay men and men who have sex with men (MSM) and suggest that anyone that may have come in to contact with the infection through unprotected sex of any kind, should get a sexual health check-up as soon as possible.
Syphilis can be treated, and you will be given free antibiotics to clear the infection. If it is not treated it can lead to blindness, heart problems and even death.
You may not have any symptoms, so the best way to check that you don't have it is to get tested.
For more details, or to ask where your local GUM clinic is, please call 0300 123 9117 or 0845 643 9399
NEW GAY NIGHT IN BASINGSTOKE

Basingstoke
A new gay night has opened it's doors on Thursday nights in Basingstoke. Poison Bar, on Old Reading Road (just off the Churchill Roundabout towards Basings View). The town centre venue is very close to the train station and is tastefully decorated.
It's opening night last week included pole dancers, party food on the tables, dancing and a friendly crowd of locals, we hope that it can attract more people and yet again Basingstoke can have a poular gay night.
You can check out pictures of the night on their facebook page ("Poison " The Bar) and see what events will be happening in the coming weeks.
Healthy Gay Hampshire will be supporting this night and we hope to have an opportunity to do some outreach sessions here very soon. As always we will keep you informed of any developments.
Homophic Incident - Odiham A287 Layby (Broad Oak)
It has come to our attention that there has been an increase in homophobic incidents on this cruising ground.
This resulted in a serious incident on Sunday 16th May at approx 1.30 am. If you have seen or heard anything at this layby that you would describe as homophobic over the past few weeks please could you contact Andrew at Healthy Gay Hampshire (Andrew.Smith@Solent.nhs.uk or 07785223722) or Claire Chandler at Fleet Police Station (Public Protection Unit) (0845 045 4545).
Any information you give will be treated in confidence. We are particularly interested if you have seen cars driving through or stopping in the layby and shouting Homophobic comments.
May is Cystic Fibrosis month

Cystic Fibrosis
Cystic fibrosis is a common inherited disease that affects over 8,500 children and young adults in the UK where five babies are born with the condition every week.
Cystic fibrosis affects the internal organs, especially the lungs and digestive system, by clogging them with thick, sticky mucus. It is caused by a faulty gene that controls the movement of salt and water in and out of cells in the body. When cystic fibrosis occurs, too much salt and not enough water passes into the cells and turns the body's secretions, which normally act as a lubricant, into a thick mucus. This mucus clogs up many of the body's tubes, ducts and passageways so they cannot work properly and in the lungs leads to frequent and severe infections.
The faulty gene that causes cystic fibrosis is recessive, which means you need two faulty genes (one from each parent) to inherit the disease. Around 1 in 25 people in the UK are carriers of the cystic fibrosis gene; carriers do not have the disease but their children may inherit it
More information can be found at the Cyctic Fibrosis Trust website below..
and at NHS Choices http://www.nhs.uk/conditions/cystic-fibrosis/Pages/Introduction.aspx
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Murder inquiry launched
Murder inquiry launched after man dies four months after he was attacked on Southampton Common
Nigel Price, aged 58, was discovered on The Common just after 7.30am on Saturday November 14.
He suffered a head injury which left him in a critical condition. He had been in a semi-coma like state for the past few months. Unfortunately he died on Tuesday 23 March, in hospital.
The police are appealing for witnesses to come forward so they can try and piece together exactly what happened and find whoever is responsible.
Nigel was white with a slim build and was wearing a checked shirt, blue jeans, a dark jacket with a lighter collar and dark shoes. (See Picture) It is known that he was at the nearby Cowherds Pub until about 8.20pm on the Friday.
Detective Chief Inspector Ben Snuggs has asked us to help with the appeal and would like to know the following:
- Were you on the Common that evening? It was a stormy, wet and windy night.
- Did you see Nigel that evening?
- Do you know him anyway and, if so, can you tell us what he was doing during the course of that evening?
- Did you see or hear an altercation, raised voices or anything which you would consider out of the ordinary? The smallest detail may help.
- We need to locate anyone who was in the Cemetery Road area who may have been involved in an argument with someone.
- We also need to trace two men who were seen at about 7.15am on Saturday 14 November. They were running towards the reservoir on the eastern side of the Common. Both men were white and in their early 30’s. One was 6ft tall with a slight build but muscular and short, light coloured hair. The other about 5ft 8” tall with darker hair. Both men were wearing lightweight dark coloured anoraks over dark jeans.
Nigel was found in the lower part of the Common near to Hill Lane and Cemetery Road.
Anyone with information is asked to contact the Operation on 101, or call Crimestoppers anonymously on 0800 555 111. Your call will be treated in the strictest confidence.
Alternatively you can contact Gay Community Health Service (GCHS) on 023 8051 5238 or 07827 254 873. The Police are NOT interested in why people were on the common they just want to know what happened. GCHS can help facilitate this on your behalf and support you should the police need to talk to you directly.
April is IBS Awareness month - Don't suffer in silence

Irritable Bowel Syndrome
If you have Irritable Bowel Syndrome (IBS), you are not alone
IBS is common with worldwide prevalence estimated at 9% to 23%. Although the condition is associated with heavy economic and social burdens, many people remain undiagnosed and unaware that their symptoms indicate a medically recognised disorder.
In order to bring attention to the symptoms and issues associated with irritable bowel syndrome, in 1997 an organisation in the USA called IFFGD designated April as IBS Awareness Month. During this time, they work to focus attention on important health messages about IBS diagnosis, treatment, and quality of life issues.
For more information see the websites below..
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Don't let Prostate Cancer hide - March is Prostate Cancer Awareness month

The Prostate Cancer Charity
This month is Prostate Cancer Awareness. Prostate Cancer is also known as the hidden cancer as studies have shown that it is the most common cancer in men, and one man dies every hour.
'Don't let prostate cancer hide' is this year's campaign to help get prostate cancer out in the open. It's a hidden cancer because not enough people talk about it. We can't see the prostate, and many people don't even know what it is or what it does.
Prostate cancer awareness month is all about changing that. The more we talk openly about prostate cancer, the more lives can be saved.
But we can't do it alone. People like you can help spread the word and help raise the profile of prostate cancer.
The Prostate Cancer Charity says, "We want men, the general public, and health professionals, to be more aware of prostate cancer. Our awareness month helps raise vital funds for much needed support and information for men who have been diagnosed and their families. It also allows us to lobby the UK's key decision makers because it is high time that the issue of prostate cancer is brought out into the open."
To read more, or get involved in raising awareness please Click Here
Click Here for more details about Prostate Cancer Charity
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Have YOU got it??

Chlamydia
We are having a push on Chlamydia Screening and are working with our friends at the local Chlamydia Screening Programme to provide you with a free and easy way of testing.
As you may know Chlamydia is the most common Sexually Transmitted Infection (STI) in young people under 25 and is very easy to pick up but also very easy to treat as well.
It is a naughty little STI as more often than not there are no symptons so you might not even know you have got it! It hangs around in your bits and can increase your chances of picking up another STI such as HIV; it can cause a thing called epididymitis, which is where your balls swell up like citrus fruit!! In women it can cause eptopic pregnancy and infertility.
We are trying to screen as many young people between the age of 16 and 25 so if you are in this age group please go to our condom ordering page and order a test online or check out www.haveyougotit.nhs.uk. We will even provide you with a funky pair of Chlamydia pants if you order through our website.
If you are over 25 you can access a Chlamydia test from your local sexual health service where you can also screen for other sexually transmitted infections including HIV.
Posted: February 22, 2010 by Andrew (updated September 27, 2010)

February is LGBT History Month

LGBT History Month
Healthy Gay Hampshire is supporting events across Hampshire's colleges. Information can be downloaded from the links below
ALERT - Syphilis Outbreak

Syphilis Outbreak
We have recently been advised that GU Medicine are treating an increasing number of people for infectious Syphilis in the Portsmouth, South East Hampshire and Winchester areas.
You can get syphilis by having oral, vaginal or anal sex with someone who already has it. A simple blood test can determine if you are infectious. Ask at your local GU Medicine clinic or your GP.
If you have Syphilis, you (and your partner) will be treated with free antibiotics, and you will receive help to contact any previous partners so that they can also get tested.
- You may not have any symptoms, but if you do they may include; a rash or ulcer.
- It can affect men and women
- If untreated can lead to blindness, heart problems, dementia and death, and can also increase the risk of HIV transmission.
If you live in Portsmouth or South East Hampshire please call 023 9286 6796 for more details.
If you live in Winchester please call 01962 828372 for more details.
Good news for travel to America

USA
The US has lifted a 22-year immigration ban which has stopped anyone with HIV/Aids from entering the country.
President Obama said the ban was not compatible with US plans to be a leader in the fight against the disease.
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Posted: January 4, 2010 by Andrew (updated September 28, 2010)

World Mental Health Day

Mental Health Day
10/10/09 - World Mental Health Day. This global awareness campaign addresses the continuing need to “make mental health issues a global priority.” Mental illnesses do not discriminate according to culture or age, and an individual’s mental health is an integral aspect of overall health and wellbeing.
Millions of people from across the globe celebrate World Mental Health Day each year, raising awareness for mental health causes.
Every year, on 10 October, the Mental Health Foundation marks the event by raising awareness of the mental health issues that matter.
Everyone knows that sharing your cares and hopes with someone else can be great for your own mental health and wellbeing. http://www.mentalhealth.org.uk/campaigns/world-mental-health-day-2009/
Stress and anxiety about Sexuality or health concerns can make problems seem worse. If you have questions about health or sexuality you can call a Healthy Gay Hampshire worker in confidence on 0845 643 9399 or 0300 123 9117
Am I number 12?: Hepatitis C Awareness Day

1 in 12 have Hep C
01/10/09 - Hepatitis Awareness Day. Hepatitis C is a blood-borne virus that predominantly infects the cells of the liver. This can cause inflammation of and sometimes significant damage to the liver and affect its ability to perform its many, varied and essential functions.
Because of the common absence of symptoms, many people are unaware that they have a hepatitis C infection until some time after infection. Another reason so many people with hepatitis C remain undiagnosed is that many of the symptoms are subjective. http://www.hepctrust.org.uk/hepatitis-c/
Getting tested at the GUM clinic is the only way that you will know for sure. You can find out where your local services are by using the easy postcode locator function at http://www.condomessentialwear.co.uk/
Posted: September 8, 2009 by Pete (updated December 14, 2009)

Reaching out: Rural Health Week

Rural Health Week
27/09/09 - 03/10/09 Rural Health Week. The aim of the week is to raise the profile of rural health issues locally, regionally and nationally.
The Institute of Rural Health and the Forum run a number of national events and target the national press to raise awareness of rural health issues. http://www.rural-health.ac.uk/rural-health-week/
If you live in rural Hampshire and would like more information on services and support for the gay community, please contact Pete Lovegrove on 0845 643 9399
Posted: September 8, 2009 by Pete (updated October 14, 2009)

The more you drink the smaller the risk appears.

One too many
'One too Many' is the new campaign for 18–30 year olds on alcohol and sexual health. Enjoy sex responsibly!
People have had unprotected sex or have taken risks with their sexual health after drinking alcohol. Many of us have either been in that situation – or know someone who has.
We usually see campaigns all about; how many alcohol units it’s safe to drink a week, how alcohol affects our health, binge drinking and anti social behaviour. There isn’t so much research on alcohol and sexual health though. That’s why this campaign is called One too Many – examining the relationship between alcohol and sexual health. http://www.fpa.org.uk/News/Campaigns
If you have recently had unprotected sex, or a change of sexual partner, or if it's been six months or more since your last check up, why not book into your local GUM clinic for a full sexual health screen. You can find out where your local services are by using the easy postcode locator function at http://www.condomessentialwear.co.uk/
Itching to Help?

Eczema Awareness Week
09/09/09 - 17/09/09 National Eczema awareness week. Having the right level of knowledge and information about eczema is key to treating and managing the condition. The About Eczema pages on the link below provides you with practical information on eczema and how to treat and manage it. In addition you will find information on where to find additional sources of support for people who have to live with eczema on a day to day basis.
Stress and anxiety about Sexuality or health concerns can make eczema flare up. If you have questions about health or sexuality you can call a Healthy Gay Hampshire worker in confidence on 0845 643 9399 or 0300 123 9117
We are not responsible for content of external web sites and only offer links to other sites as an alternative source of information.
Posted: September 8, 2009 by Pete (updated September 2, 2010)

What do you know about migraines?

Migraine headache
06/09/09 - 12/09/09 Migraine Awareness Week, find out about headaches, migraines, what triggers them and how to control them. Visit the link below for all the details.
More than 10 million people in the UK get headaches, making them one of the most common health complaints.
The good news is that most headaches aren’t serious and can be treated with pharmacy remedies and lifestyle changes, such as getting more rest and drinking enough fluids. http://www.nhs.uk/LiveWell/headaches/Pages/headacheshome.aspx
It's not just stress and nasty colds that cause headaches. Cleaning your home or sleeping in late can cause them too. We reveal 10 headache triggers and how to fix them. http://www.nhs.uk/Livewell/headaches/Pages/Headachetriggers.aspx
Stress makes headaches worse and can even make you develop a headache in the first place. Learning how to relax can help you to keep headaches under control.
There are many different ways to relax or reduce stress. The following are seven relaxation techniques that headache sufferers have found useful. Try to do one each day: http://www.nhs.uk/Livewell/headaches/Pages/Relaxandcureyourheadaches.aspx
Stress and anxiety about Sexuality or health concerns can make headaches and migraines feel worse. If you have questions about health or sexuality you can call a Healthy Gay Hampshire worker in confidence on 0845 643 9399 or 0300 123 9117
Alert: Important information about swine flu
Last updated 5:08 PM Tuesday 26 January 2010
Swine flu has diminished in the UK. However, it remains important that you know how to protect yourself, your family and others.
Key messages
If you have flu-like symptoms and are concerned that you may have swine flu:
- Read up on swine flu symptoms
- Stay at home and check your condition at the National Pandemic Flu Service
- You should call your GP directly if:
- you have a serious underlying illness
- you are pregnant
- you have a sick child under one year old
- your condition suddenly gets much worse
- your condition is still getting worse after seven days (or five days for a child)
Note: The National Pandemic Flu Service is a self-care service that will asses your symptoms and, if required, provide an authorisation number which can be used to collect antiviral medication from a local collection point. For those who do not have internet access, the same service can be accessed by telephone on:
- Telephone: 0800 1 513 100
- Minicom: 0800 1 513 200
For more information on the National Pandemic Flu Service go to Flu Service – Q&A
Key actions
Swine flu remains a threat in the UK. Prepare now by:
- Learning to recognise the symptoms of swine flu
- Establishing ‘flu friends’ - friends and relatives who can help if you fall ill
- Keeping paracetamol-based cold remedies in the house
- Having a thermometer available so you can check your temperature if needed
Note: If you have elderly or vulnerable neighbours please check on them. They may need your help but be reluctant to ask for it. It is important you do what you can.
Key reading
- For an explanation of swine flu, its symptoms and treatment, go to Swine flu A-Z
- For quick questions and answers go to Swine flu Q&A
- For information on pregnancy go to Swine flu - pregnant women
- For information on other high-risk groups go to Swine flu - high-risk groups
- For information in other languages and formats, including British Sign Language video, go to Swine flu - other languages.
Note: To order a Braille copy of the swine flu information leaflet, call the swine flu information line on 0800 1 513 513
Good hygiene
Preventing the spread of germs is the single most effective way to slow the spread of diseases such as swine flu. You should always:
- Ensure everyone washes their hands regularly with soap and water
- Clean surfaces regularly to get rid of germs
- Use tissues to cover your mouth and nose when you cough or sneeze
- Place used tissues in a bin as soon as possible
Further information
Go to Directgov for essential cross-government information on swine flu, including latest advice on travel, schools and other public services
Go to BusinessLink for essential information to help businesses deal with the effects of swine flu
Find out all about swine flu, including symptoms, vaccination, pregnancy, high-risk groups, and what you can do to protect yourself and others.
Find out all about swine flu, including symptoms, vaccination, pregnancy, high-risk groups, and what you can do to protect yourself and others.
http://www.nhs.uk/AlertsEmergencies/Pages/Pandemicflualert.aspx
The Department of Health urge people to cover coughs and sneezes with tissues, throw them away and wash their hands. Catch it, Bin it, Kill it!



















