Lifestyle

Married and gay?

Lots of the guys we meet are married. Some of them have only recently started to think about (or act on) their attractions to other men. Some of them are questioning or re-evaluating their marriage. If you feel you need help with this then you may want to consider approaching Relate. They are there to help people in both straight and same sex relationships. They also not only help people trying to save relationships, but can also help people (both as couples and individuals) plan how to leave relationships.

Many guys are married and having sex with other men, and are quite well adapted to it. They often share some of their 'tricks' with us, like keeping a spare pair of boots in the car.

At the moment there is no particular support group for married men in the area (although there is one in Surrey if that is near you). If you'd be interested in starting such a group you may want to give us a ring.